i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!
not a lot of ppl grasp this.
Just experienced this for two weeks. Had a friend literally upset with me because I was having a bad day and I wasnt in the mood. Claiming that i was giving her the “cold shoulder”. Left it and her alone and she ended up apologizing to me. Being 100% giddy and happy is impossible when life is happening everyday! I will not be shamed for responding to life
